Persistence of "More"

There is a cultural narrative that is constantly being told, about the myth of "more" and it is not just persistent, because of the made up story-telling, it is re-inforced, by how pepple give themselves away, & it is enforced, as abuse of everyone who doesn't fulfill, or, participate.

If you look at people as the unique individual they are, and you compare the value-add that relationship is artificially normalized at,  to benefit received, you'll notice that the only take-away value that is transfered is maturity, or, evolution, or growth. In one word: learning. 

So, you come to the conclusion, like I have, that, if relationship isn't triggering growth, it's not just worthless, it's net(subtract cost from profit) is suffering. Relationship causes suffering, once you subtract pain from pleasure, not only is there no reason to interact, there's every reason to become unknowable, unknown, and as invisible and unreachable as possible.

Every twelve step program claims that anonymity is their foundation and that it's a spiritual principle but that's just impressive sounding mind-control mumbo jumbo to lure in the impressionable because no one wants to consider the idea their personality is fake, and the word "spirit" has no definition and means nothing to anyone. 

However, once again, if you go back to your analysis of what the very extremely real takeaway that ppl can get, as pure profit from relationship you will find your anonymity there. 

Because, for example, children get their sexual appetites and techniques from impressions from their parent and authority figures sexual mores, however, the value transfer doesn't transfer as having the sex their authority figure had. The impressions transfer without transferring any information about identity. 

So, truly, altruism, is the only rational motivation and reason to not ignore the fuck out of everyone else, because, if either of your lives improve, the one person who will NEVER see a return on that, is each other. There is no "more." There is only the giver, and the recipient. And the gift keeps them from ever being able to meet.

But, I'm asocial. If you want to argue against my points, do like I do, & talk to yourself 😅🤣😂 for gods sake don't require someone else to listen 🤣😉