The Same, In Return, VS. Fair

I'm going to discuss giving everyone what they give, back to them, exactly as given, as a lifestyle choice, that applies to every single value transfer, and every single interaction.

Never play fair. Life isn't fair, because abusers don't have the option to stop themselves. And ppl who are good to you, want to see your success. That is how you spend what they gave, by making yourself worthy of the gift, you make it worth their time, so they don't regret it, and feel like a failure.

play: "The same, in return." The same, returned, does not ONLY mean "an eye for an eye" even though, revenge and violation and the pain they cause, is the only thing that will empower an abuser with a choice. The same, in return, is difficult for people, because it means what others give you, you owe them, the same back, as far as love, freedom, empowerment, support..... you see? 

The positives? Love is a free gift, from me, BUT THE PPL I GIVE IT TO, OWE ME THE SAME, IN RETURN, regardless. They owe it to me. They owe it to themselves. 

 When the worthy love the unworthy, there is an unplayable debt created. They have no option, except to raise themselves, to the level of deserving, after the fact, too late.

Hence why i say, don't play fair, because loving, empowering, supportive ppl are the most unfair of everyone. They give themselves to the worthy and the unworthy, the same. They pre-pay, and they repay, and they pay, everywhere they go. That is their "trick." Their "turn." Is they don't owe until they owe a return. They take any situation, and return, to love.