A Short Rope (To Hang Yourself With)

The Mafia guys bragged to me, that their strongest play, is to hand people a short rope, to hang themselves with.

You have to understand, the risk profile an abusive person works within, is paranoid, obsessive compulsive, to the point of OCD ritualism, & superstition. And, a true master of abuse, waits, to arrange for even their victim, to be mind-controlled, to re-define what that person's consensus reality is like, so, they will not even be abusive, and allow themselves to indulge, until even their victim, themselves, has a 0% chance of correctly identifying what they are doing.

But, socially, you should never assume you are at the top of the food chain. There are too many moving parts, in the human body. And, so, especially unlike with animal predators, the human mind is a powerful instrument. And, it trumps any physical play, by a mile. For abusive people, it's always a physical play, at some point down the line, and, the famous author, Frank Herbert, made a very, extremely valid observation. He said, something to the effect of, that you should be careful, and view as an unmitigated, unprotectable, open vulnerability, to watch all of your points of commitment: to know, that, the second you have one, you are now vulnerable, & exposed, to being taken over, by a greater power, a stronger player.

And, the thing is, abusive people are THE MOST risk adverse, and they are THE best, at measuring for exposure, however, at the end of the day, they do end up making a play, at some point. Now, or later. And, the point is, that as long as you are going to make a play, then, even if you are the best in the world, at that play, a righteous person still beats you, every time. Because a righteous person doesn't expose anyone to risk. They have zero exposure. They have no vulnerability. Because they aren't making any move that isn't righteous, their risk profile, by necessity, & in fact, allows for zero exposure to risk, for every part involved in their own initiative.

I guess that's why they didn't see me coming....or, it's how come I was able to destroy the Canadian Mafia, without ever committing, myself. I mean, if it was just about visibility, these guys would cream their pants if they understood beforehand, that I do what they do, but, I don't even provide the rope.

 I provide the space for security, & safety, compassion, & true relationship, and, people helplessly fill that space with all of their honesty. Abusive people fill it with abuse. With confession. I mean, it's a terrible side effect, of, how come, when you love your abuser: I mean, truly love love them: that that person will eventually commit suicide before they will allow you to be harmed, one more time.

But the thing about a righteous person, is they don't allow harm. Their risk profile, is that they allow absolutely zero exposure. And, I think that that's funny, that the fact the righteous person doesn't allow any harm to come to anyone, because of themselves, that it is exactly the policy, about everyone's outcome, enacted for the benefit of everyone else, actually comes around, full-circle, to result in guaranteed protection of themself. Guaranteed. If you give zero engagement, I'm your own behaviour, with harmful interactions, then, an abusive person has no means or method of harming you. You see, all victimization requires at minimum a bastardizrd version of consent, and, I just don't agree to allow myself to be involved with that.

All abuse, especially the way that the abuser takes damage, is highly cooperative. It all requires a mutuality of co-operation, in order for both people to hurt both. And so, if i don't agree, to play my part, in the interaction, what happens to the abuser? They evaluate whether or not they can do the thing that usually harms both. That's them pulling out a rope and tying a noose. And then, they commit the action that they believe will harm both. And, that's them hanging themselves on their own rope. Because I don't do scripted roleplaying. Enjoy your suicide.