Rape: Honest Abuse

Have you heard of "suicide, by cop" ??? Yes? No? If you go on the ubiquitous suicide-boards, on the internet (board, is early slang, for bulletin-board, because, on all the first communication sites, every written post was visible to the entire group, like sticking a note on the fridge is visible to your whole family) then, your first overwhelming realization is that suicidal people are disgustingly ambivalent. They want to live, just as strongly as they are certain they need to be dead. 

However, there is no real basis, in fact, with being so malignant towards suicidal people's decided indecidedness, within you, if you have 100% committed to trying to kill yourself, and survived. You would likely know, from experience, that, the closer you get to successfully exiting, a powerful, positive desire to actually be alive, manifests, very perversely, ironically, like a cruel, sick joke, from the gods, and, it only manifests enough to block your play, only in the context of you being otherwise successful. And, the second you relent, & quit your course of action, the opposite desire re-manifests, as a permanent, ongoing fact of your eternal state of being.

So, a lot of people commit suicide by cop. They are either experienced enough to know their psychological, physiological complexity will torment them, like a well-fed house cat who has caught a mouse it is too full to eat, or, they see everyone else's ambivalence, but, either way, someone who commits suicide by cop, has realized they can not independently resolve the drama, and, that, they don't even want resolution, enough to resolve the flip-flop, so, they take advantage of the fact police are lawfully bound to defend themselves with deadly force, and they abuse that obligation, in order to forcibly task Police with serving their goal of suicide. 

Rape, I would say, is the second most honest crime, after murder, and, suicide by cop, is forcing police to commit murder, because you don't have the stones, yourself. Rape is the next most honest crime, because of the nature of the consequences, being unavoidably unambiguous. And, there are a million-billion other violent abuses, which are infinitely, INFINITELY more evil, and, which requires, or, calls for, but, also needs to have, or, inevitably, creates an infinitely more evil, hateful, dangerous, destructive monster of a person, for the simple fact, that the abuses that they commit, involve no direct affect, or, less direct affect. 

And so, the greater evil is what it is, because the abuser manipulates, successfully, to avoid, & escape, & deny the reality of the truth of the entire fact of their abuse, and, they commit their abuses, carefully selected, so that the proof of what they have done, exists somewhere where they will never possibly be confronted with it. So that they can also successfully mind-control everyone with a glorious lie about who they are, on top of guaranteeing that the proof of who they actually are, is guaranteed to never see the light of day, because that proof will manifest in a context that will never overwhelm the barriers between their mind-control and reality.

Yes, but, if you have sex with someone, you are both directly affected. You can not build any psychological structure, on top of the foundation of physical sex: it doesnt prove identity. You can't create a fun house, a house of horror, a real house, a house of cards, nor one of smoke and mirrors. You can't even build a glass house, because, the report of the senses, during physical sex, goes directly to memory, verbatim, and, the truth of the experience, is so apparent, in strength, that the evidence is undeniable, & the messaging is not vulnerable to tampering, or adulteration, and, denial is not possible, nor suppression, nor repression.

When you physically have sex, from your own reactions, & sense, & from the partners reactions, & sense, there is undeniable communication that can not be denied, and true facts of identity are unavoidably realized, & integrated. That is what is characteristic, to rape, and that is why I call rape the second most honest physical crime, because, if you compare what actually took place, to the only stories that can possibly be told, about what took place, you will find that the ONLY abuser who has a truth to tell, about their abuse, that is a CORRECTLY identified, fully acknowledged, well integrated, accepted, evidenced, valid, trustworthy, sensate, FACTUALITY. 

Every other form of abuse, the abuser deliberately avoids the fact of their violence, in order to allow themselves enough room to create a false narrative. But, the rapist? They leave themselves no such option. They will commit their abuse. Sex will confront them with all of the truth of what they have done. They will fully know the full truth of everything that they have done. There will be no escaping, avoiding, denying, or interpreting what they have done. 

And, just to be clear, this entire blog post, as a topic, this has nothing to do with rape. Rape, just so happens to be an act where the normally covert, opaque, not-visible, well hidden aspect, inherent to all abuse, manifests completely opposite.

My true topic, & point of discussion, is about how abuse, in general, in the big picture, in the big tent, that includes all of them, abuse is conditional upon ignorance. If an abuser can commit an abuse, and remain ignorant of the full truth of their commitment, they will commit their abuse. That is The Truth, about the Abuser. If they can successfully fail to identify the proof of their abuse, then, that is a full police escort, with barricaded side streets, for their entire parade of violence. They will be dancing in the streets, in their new clothes.

But, rape, is an entirely different quality of abuse. It's a completely different type of abuse. In every other abuse, the risk management of the abuser, is to minimize exposure to identification, or, secondly, if they can abuse authority, then, they can evade identification with a campaign of deception. 

However, having sex with someone, accomplishes the exact opposite. Identification is fully proven. Truth is integrated. The possibility of self-deception is permanently excluded, forever. The possibility of deception, is permanently excluded, forever. So, you have to understand, that the abuser who commits rape, is a completely different animal. Every other abuser will be unstoppable, because, no one will ever be able to confront them, with a strong enough display of proof of who they are. Every other abuser commits limitless evil, unstoppable, because, they will NEVER encounter proof of their evil. It will not ever happen. That is why, every abuser, other than the rapist, is far more evil. Because, they intend to never find out who they are, and, outside of raping someone, they will be successful, in all of their evil, because their evil is committed in such a way that they are able to evade all of the evidence, & proof of what they have done.

But, rape? 💯 opposite. That person, wants the opposite. They don't want to be evil and not have to admit it. They want to be evil, and not leave themselves any option to not know how evil they are. 

They have realized, just like all of those people who abuse the fact police are forced to act as if they are worthy individuals, by guaranteeing their survival, with deadly force, in order to commit suicide, that, they lack the willpower, & the capacity, to correctly judge the fullness of just how evil they actually are. The rapist knows they can not force themselves to identify themselves, just like the average suicidal person does not have the strength nor the capacity to relieve themselves of their suffering. So, the rapist goes to their victim victim, just like the one who has decided on suicide, goes to the cops. They will arrange to set events in motion, so that a power greater than themselves, accomplishes, for them, what they can not attain, on their own.

 You know, some suicidal people commit suicide, abusing the will to live, of police. And, rapists, commit suicide, by way of their victims, exactly the same. They have chosen, to fully know exactly how evil they are, and, by how their rape victim sees them, they absolutely will attain the correct, & full judgement against themselves. They will. That is why, rape, unlike all of the other abuses? It is the only honest abuse. It is the SOLE abuse, where the abuser will end their abuse, with a valid, correct, full, & accurate sense of their own identity.