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Religion Is Like Bowling

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The Apostle Paul established the role religion should play, in a value proportion, as a letter to Jesus' early first churches.  In detail, Paul said that if any member of religious association has unresolved problems(violent abuse), or, issues(failure to love, aka, covert violent abuse) in their family, that they are to be summarily ejected(kicked out) by the group(rejected) and that they are not to be allowed to return, until their family issues are resolved(love, empowerment, freedom, choice) and the problems are also fully confronted, & eliminated(abuse-free). So, in this value proposition, to place it, in another context, without changing anything about it, the Apostle Paul is saying that religion is bowling. He's saying, that religion is something to do with your time, that does absolutely nothing for you, if you have extra time. If all your business is sorted, if all your bills are paid, if you have found happiness, independently, then, do religion, but, only if their
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Generating Consent

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Question: where does consent come from? After you finish telling me all the spectator commentary, and you've said everything you've been told, heard, or overheard, I'll ask you the same question, over again, because none of those answers everyone gives satisfies anyone. Otherwise, the topic wouldn't be avoided.  Consent is very conditional. It's very extremely contextual. It means, that, if all the "right"(I will list them) conditions are satisfied,then, Consent is present. And, outside of this scenario, no consent is possible.  Before I make the scary True statement, I want to bring in the observation of the Apostle Paul. He had finally finished his parenting, and, he had just finished his socialization(introduction, learning) to love, having lived with the Essene love cult, for a few years, if it was known about love, he had experienced it and identified it. He made an interesting statement about love. The bad translation, since love has nothing to do wi
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The Capacity For Consent

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The art of consent, begins tests, to force proof of who has a capacity to make a choice, or, you will see proof that ppl are making automatic, compulsive decisions that describe a pattern of self-betrayal, & self-victimization, and slavery, and those self-raping, unstoppable, unstoppable, ceaseless habituations will always reveal themselves, as an inability to discuss the topic.  It's not a relationship trope, that after "Hello," and before every choice, every single couple that made good, and are great, between those two events, discussed everything. Every awesome couple, in order to get to know each other, had long, long, deep, super super deep discussions, where they both said it all, and they both said everything there is to say about being human, about attachments, about connection, about freedom, love, commitment, partnership, sex, etc....it was ALL mentioned. All of it.  That's not a relationship goal. It's not an ideal, or a myth, as in, "would be
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What to Believe About "No."

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Words, of course, are subconscious self-programming. It's how people mind-control themselves. So, the first thing to believe, about what is changing, inside of "No" is that what is was, is gone forever. What is was, has been cancelled. And, whether or not the choice to reject is accurate, or inaccurate, as compared to anything else, "No" cannot program fundamental drives. What it is, is a new commitment point, that that person is now irrevocably binding themselves, to opposition. Their new unconscious programming launches a ship called "It's not gonna happen." And, those words draws every part of their being, into alignment, in support of the new "what it is."
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Pattern Recognition

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        One quirk of the hand, and more words were murmered to the close held ear. The interpretor straightened. The toothless Abbot smiled; his thin body, that looked like it could be blown away, by wind, was quaking with mirth. "Abbot say, 'No such thing, as coincidence. Student very funny. Student make a joke. He like, very much'" Constance raised an eye, and asked "so, I will be trained?" The interpretor smiled, as he said, "It has already begun." "Wheel of Death" ~ Preston, & Childs Coincidence only exists in the minds of those who believe it's a thing, but, even inside of them, it is not real to them. It exists merely as a belief, and any and all evidence they collect cancels itself out, in the long run, because, there is no such thing as coincidence. That is a belief that exists, only just inside the broken heads of people whose pattern recognition functionality has never yet been activated.  They pre-suppose(assume, conclu
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Fearfulness

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What most people identify as fear, is actually, more realistically hatred of fear, aka, fearfullness, aka, fear of fear. Because they are committing to reject fear, they never find out, that 50% of all worst fears, is the fear of rejecting something that's guaranteed, and good.  It's not one bit like the fear of missing out, because, I am not referring to the fear or cost of lost opportunity, because, people should be fearful, in their decision-making, regarding opportunity, because they need to manage risk, because an opportunity is not an option, so, it should be taken on as a calculated loss, and never without full proof of content, prior. An option is a guaranteed, purely profitable, no risk, zero liability option. It is guaranteed, and only waiting for you to choose it, so that consent, is controlled for, and also guaranteed. THAT is the difference between an option, and an opportunity. This is half of people's worst fear. Is getting the best thing they'll never ha
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Chickens Fly

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Chickens actually can fly, but, they only do so, when they are reinforced to associate a signal(bell, whatever) with a feeding. And, if those two are firmly attached, then, chickens roam far, & fly home. I'm not talking about chickens. I'm talking about management of fearful people, and award awakening daring.
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Let's "Negotiate" Freedom(don't have to)

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Let's negotiate freedom, in communication. I use the word "negotiate" in the original definition, which does not refer to bartering, contracting, buying or selling. It is defined as navigating treacherous waters, if it's marine navigation. The implication being, like a river, only someone who can navigate, knows the one path that does not ground the boat, on sandbanks,  shoals, the absence of a channel, shallows, etc. Or, how only the Captain, on international faring traders, knew how to use a sextant to determine their position on the globe. Hence, only he knew which exact angle of the compass to aim at.  The word navigation, describes both a hard, difficult journey, with infinite danger, and it also describes having a destination, that makes the journey profitable.  So, when we discuss freedom, the destination, that one navigates TOWARDS, 50 times a day, maybe 200 times a day, never fully arriving, with all parts, at the end realization(humans aim at truths. They mu
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Famous Females from Antiquity: The Shulamnite Woman

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THE most widely known, best-loved, female character, from literature, from antiquity, non-fiction, is, the shulamnite woman. She is the Jewish King Solomon's "one that got away."  She, & her ruddy, daring, courageous, & adventurous beloved/lover, the shepherd boy, are the entire topic, of the book: "Song Of Solomon" although that connection is unstated, & a careful reader will draw it.  She is the real-life inspiration for Solomon's much-vaunted Proverbs 31 ideal woman; also un-stated, so, other historical records must be brought to bear, to confirm the identicality that draws the conclusion. And, with the addition of other historians descriptions of her entire life, it's likely that everything about the feminine, in proverbs, describes her, and as much as everything about children going right(opposite of gone wrong) could be from observations of the results of her parenting. And, the linear, A, then B, then C, type of story-telling is scatte
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Levels Of Truth

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I want to detail what I see is a dishonesty, that people don't have a thought process for. And, therefore, cannot realize. Because, everyone being fully rational, is the end of abuse for everyone. So, let's say you're gonna plan a trip. Pick a city. Or a locale. 10 minute drive, or 3 hour drive, or drive, fly, drive, or rail. Now, at your current level of honesty, and your relationship to reality, your list looks like this:  1. Travel 2. Arrive However, i actually asked was for you to fully provide all of the planning, in that trip. I didnt ask for a timeline. I asked for plans. So, what I MEANT, was, include planning to lay down the rail. Tell me how that is done, if you use rail. If you're using a car, tell me, from the mining that supplies the materials, to the chemistry that produces the rubbers, plastics, and alloys,  ending with all the plans needed to end with the vehicles you intend to use, tell me how to execute your plan, assuming nothing, not even from scratc
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U Mad Bro? Bro, U Ok? (/r/RedPill bros)

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Failure To Communicate

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The best lie, is the truth. But, first, let's detail people who lie, as their strategy for lying, to see why it is extremely NOT robust. The most common form of lying, which is the intentional act, to deceive, is withholding. To withhold The Truth, the liar is self-deceived. They identify a fact, just well enough to identify when it is present, just well enough to ignore it completely, and also never learn what it is, in any detail. This state of being is called denial. The combination of targeting a reality to be ignored, enables them to argue that that reality doesn't exist, that it's not real. They can insert any claim they want, about what it is, and use that to influence themselves, and mind-control, and unconsciously program others, aka, abuse "normalization" where they impress the victim with a false fact they wish the victim to forever assume is true, aka normal.  Abusers are notoriously lazy, so, they skip straight to the part where the victim keeps thems
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Negotiating Consent

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The issue of consent, doesn't begin with asking for consent.  The beginning of consent, is leaving everyone else the fuck alone, by having your own thing going that doesn't involve anyone else, that you can do on your own.  If you are always doing your own thing, and don't need anything, and never assume anything, by starting anything, that you haven't asked for, then, you are allowing everyone to do their own thing, freely, and giving everyone else the freedom to be doing their own thing, uninterupted, and doing your own thing, so that no one else is forced to stop what they are doing, and deal with you?  That is the opening negotiation of consent. Everyone else is free to ignore the fuck out of you and reject you, and do whatever the fuck THEY want, regardless of you. No obligation, is the value system, that consent can be built upon. So, if you want a free choice yourself, get busy learning to leave everyone the fuck alone. No one else is free until they don't ha
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That's Giving

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Attention, of course, is the first gift of yourself. The negotiation of a marriage, for example, everything else will sort itself out, if two people agree, to give all of their attention, to their partner, when their attention is being sought.  Attention, is so much more than what your eyes see. Where you focus, and hold your attention, you have not just created an opportunity to see something, or let something be seen, you have actually given yours whole self, completely, on every level, because, the most you part of you, is the you that lives inside your head. The witness, and what is witnessed, are one. Elkhart Tolle calls that part of the mind the observer. Quantum physics calls it the observer. It is not an eye in your mind, so, don't compare yourself to what any union, masons or otherwise, visually places atop a pyramid. A truly excellent therapist, may call that truest part, that is you a "Noticer."  Because, that is the part of
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Drama Scripts

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I don't know how your relationships end. I know that the majority of people have what my first good counselor calls a "drama script." A drama script, is an overly emotional, toxic ending. "It ALWAYS ends this way." AKA, "ends up beings this way." And, you ask yourself, why do they always discover the same facts, over and over, and over? Back in my church days, they called a drama script a "self-fulfilling prophecy." In other words, your actions are a control. You are a control. And, your strategies eliminate the possibility of other scripts coming true.. and your tactics ensure that your script always comes true. So, I don't know how your relationships are, at the end, but, my toxic trait,lol [jk] is that I always offer any help people need, until they are able to make the decision to end things with me, on their own. Because, I don't like conflict. And I despise ineffectiveness. No more elsewhere, than in decision making. I like it t
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