Persistence of "More"
There is a cultural narrative that is constantly being told, about the myth of "more" and it is not just persistent, because of the made up story-telling, it is re-inforced, by how pepple give themselves away, & it is enforced, as abuse of everyone who doesn't fulfill, or, participate. If you look at people as the unique individual they are, and you compare the value-add that relationship is artificially normalized at, to benefit received, you'll notice that the only take-away value that is transfered is maturity, or, evolution, or growth. In one word: learning. So, you come to the conclusion, like I have, that, if relationship isn't triggering growth, it's not just worthless, it's net(subtract cost from profit) is suffering. Relationship causes suffering, once you subtract pain from pleasure, not only is there no reason to interact, there's every reason to become unknowable, unknown, and as invisible and unreachable as possible. Every twelve ste