Failure To Communicate

The best lie, is the truth. But, first, let's detail people who lie, as their strategy for lying, to see why it is extremely NOT robust.

The most common form of lying, which is the intentional act, to deceive, is withholding. To withhold The Truth, the liar is self-deceived. They identify a fact, just well enough to identify when it is present, just well enough to ignore it completely, and also never learn what it is, in any detail. This state of being is called denial. The combination of targeting a reality to be ignored, enables them to argue that that reality doesn't exist, that it's not real. They can insert any claim they want, about what it is, and use that to influence themselves, and mind-control, and unconsciously program others, aka, abuse "normalization" where they impress the victim with a false fact they wish the victim to forever assume is true, aka normal. 

Abusers are notoriously lazy, so, they skip straight to the part where the victim keeps themselves in their trap, unhelped. 

That is why they are always telling everyone else "what it is" because that's how abusers troll for potential victims. Anyone who agrees with them, will hold still to help their rapist rape them, for one example, of how the victim does all the legwork. And the abuser only has to go around, and test who has a victim mindset, stating victim beliefs as if they are real, and true.

And they can forcibly, violently, abusively, or unlovingly interact with whatever they are targeting whose acknowledgement can kever occur, and if that's a victim, they will ignore the victim completely, and that is the only way they'll have the freedom, to torture, rape, violate, or murder, is if they successfully ignore everything about the other person, except the form of the outcome, such as legs opened wide, or, tail tucked between legs. 

That's 99% of intentional lying, is what they have no awareness of the facts of, because they have created a learning block between themselves and the details. They have no relationship to Truth, and so, everything they say and do, is a lie, because they keep their access to proof, evidence, reality, and perception(sense, feeling) blocked.

This type of liar is also expert at blocking other people. Their intuition is absolutely amazing, but, only when it is in service of perpetuating deception. They know how to marrow down potential targets to just those who have no access to The Truth. And, by brute force, of trying every form of violent abuse, they have gotten extremely good at triggering states of being, and events that will create more hard barriers between their victim, and a realization of the facts. 

The next 1% of intentional lying, is a creative invention of a possibly true imaginary statement that is true nowhere, except in their proposition, and only then, true, in the beliefs others attach to their statements, or, at minimum, they desire others don't fact check them, or notice their statement at all, preferably.

The funny thing about liars who intend to lie, as opposed to truth-tellers, who deceive, is that liars who lie don't believe that love is a need. 😅🤣😂

For example, you can meet the love of your life, and you can consummate the relationship sexually, however, the relationship remains indeterminate(an unknown quantity/quality, insecure, terrifying, victimizing, non-consensual, un-chosen, not an option yet) until both people REALIZE what they are involved in.

That's assuming best case scenario, where they both ARE in love, and all that remains is for them to find a sight lune, and enough support to identify and mutual confirm what is already true. 

What I'm really pointing at, is much much earlier than that, the human need for  confirmation, and, only love, inspires one person to inform another about anything. They do not operate, with the awareness of the human need for confirmation. For certainty. 

Notice, I didn't say security. As in, "am I good enough?" "Can someone else more attractive secure my partners attention, away from me?" Etc etc etc

Certainty. Certainty, is an end result. It requires someone with a conscious awareness that is able to identify things. And it requires overt displays of proof, evidence, and fact. Not only do humans NEED love relationship in their life, at least one time, so that they learn to identify it, the learning process is not complete until people have wired up a rational process that enables(allows, helps) them to become consciously aware, of the reality of a present moment love relationship. 

Since liars have no relationship to reality, those simple facts, as stated, are what they are competing against. Let's say that they talk themselves into assuming they are in love. Let's say the lie took, and they are now deceived. However, all they have done, is triggered a deep-seated requirement, that is hard-wired into human DNA. They will not be able to rest, until their conscious awareness has verified their lie, identifying proof, & evidence.

So, you see, those who use lies to lies, are not going to be caught because anyone wishes to catch them.  Most often the victim wants this process of making the unconscious conscious blocked as well, because the victim also desires, equally, the power to speak a word, and make it so. And that that be that. It's done. 

But, Certainty, and conclusiveness, which is a result of proof married to awareness, is what love provides. And humans are hard wired to pursue truth, until they find out what is true, in every matter that is unconfirmed. 

So, if you lie to lie, you need to know, there is no amount of violence, that won't speed up the discovery process investigating for proof, evidence, facts, and realities. And, the better you convince someone of a word, the more certain a fact it is, that they will be unable to stop investigating that word, until they find it has no meaning, or until they find the proof that attests to that word

So, telling lies, is for temporary deception, only because a lie is a statement of things not knowable, and not known, so, it triggers an  infallible learning process that is ineligible in it's methodical path to success.. that learning process will ALWAYS end successfully, and at that exact second, everyone relationship to the liar ends, and everyone cancels the liar, including they canceling themselves, and they ending their relationship to their lies, themself.

Conclusion. That's why the truth is the best lie. Because, reality is abundantly overt. The Truth is apparent. Every fact about everything in the cosmos has its own voice and is broadcasting the truth of itself, with a very loud voice. The Bible says that God made reality so unavoidably obvious, "so that they would be without excuse " that describes victims and abusers. Their excuses end, and their memory kicks back in, and they all end up coming back, to say, "I knew that, all along, right from the start.' 

They don't say, "I had my suspicions." They say, "I knew it, in the first six seconds after we met." And then, they tell you, that their mental processes are warped, and produce no results or incorrect results, from true information, and to confirm what I just stated, they will say, "I just didn't know what it meant." Or they will say, "I thought it was love." And then they will meditate on the loveless abuse it turned out to be, silently. 

In other words, if you state the simple facts, everyone agrees with you instantly, because the sense confirm the facts, and the senses can always identify true words that describe real realities.

However, 99% of the time, if you're a person who restricts yourself to simple factual statements about realities that are obvious to everyone, you will find, 99% of the time, that you are not offered a confirmation, that someone else has identified proof of the exact same, the exact same proof,  about the same thing..

No, because, going back to what I said, earlier, humans need their conclusions. They need their attachments.  And, if people don't have the capacity(option, ability, functionality) to investigate all facts about reality, and they don't have the rational intelligence to identify, consciously, the proof of what they are sensing, they require all of these things that only love motivates/causes anyone to supply, in order to survive. They need to know who is safe/unsafe. Who is loving/in denial. 

So, they go ahead, and invent conclusions, and they add labels(attachments, identifiers, interpretation) to everything it's important to know they are blocked from knowing. 

So, telling the proven facts(The Truth) that reality is, that everyone can confirm, is the best lie, because, even though everyone can identify your words are true, to the reality they point at, 99% are blocked from ever discovering any details or any information at all, about what you are pointing at. 

In fact, if your true words direct everyone's attention to look at something others can't identify, 99% of the time, your words CAN NOT place anyone else's attention on what you are detailing(discussing, describing) because others are taking a trip through a head case fear of the unknown. The audience gets up, wanders off, and leaves you. So that they can stop feeling triggered. 

Or, if you are a simple speaker of facts, because, the fact of what is being discussed, stands proving itself to everyone, and if your words match what that thing is showing itself to be, but, others don't relate to their common sense perception of truth, then, your simple, true, honest, verifies, attested to, valid, validated, proven, evidenced, obvious statements will NEVER be acknowledged. Because 99% are not realistic, with any depth,  nor detail. 

So, 99% of people withdraw from you, and cut ties.  And they trigger their conclusions.  They trigger their personal, private attachments(interpretation, assumption, applied meaning, belief). In other words, they nod, and then go inside themselves, cutting themselves off from everyone else, in order to engage with their tactics, strategies, interpretations, conclusions, etc 

That is why the truth is the best lie. Because only 1% of the popular can identify what is real about reality, in detail. 99% of people are not interested in truth,  details, reality or facts. 

They are hell bent on a 24/7/365 Dantian, sisiphian task of paranoid certainty they are being lied to, and they only have enough time of day, to look for things like conviction(speaking with strength, from security) that they have artificially invented as a "good" way to test for lies.

 In reality, ALL of their reality tests ends with them assigning an interpretation of "honest" to liars. In this example, the only people who speak from conviction, are those who will deceive. People who tell the truth, let the thing speak for itself. So, they whisper, if they speak at all.

Tell the truth, and everyone who heard you, will independently trigger themselves to interact with their unjustified assumptions and unsupported conclusions.. in other words,

 if you tell the truth, attention never returns back to you, from the thing your words pointed at. If you speak someone else's conclusion, they will ignore you completely, forever. They are no longer available, to relate to you, because they enter their strategic/tactical stage, of what to do about it. You see, telling the truth, is the best lie, because, other people will always confirm your honesty, but then ghost/abandon you, in order to interact with their lies. 

The ONLY exception, where truth telling does anything except tax you, insufferable, is if you speak the truth, to someone whose relationship to reality(The Truth) is perfect, whole, integrated, and complete. That person may speak back to you. They may confirm what you said, so that you can admire their realism, and their value, and also their other motive to speak your words back to you, in the best case scenario, is to let you know that THEY admire your realism, and THEY value, your realism, and THEY love your realism, and so, in summary, THEY love you, for being right, and good enough to get it right, and good enough to verify it, and so on. 

See, a simple confirmation of what is true, is a loving service to humanity. And it also communicates your qualities, and value, as a person. If your words are factual, you are a worthy person. 99% of the time, people will betray, and abandon you, the instant you give them 5 or 6 new true words they never heard before, because they are going to rip you off, for the value of their benefit, and they are going to act like you're wrong, bad, insane, evil, etc, so that you hate yourself for benefiting them, and so that they can guarantee they take a profit, and you get no benefit from your goodness, and also take a loss. 

The truth, is the best deception. Because it triggers self-deception, in everyone who is self-deceived. So, you did not lie. You spoke the truth. It was THEY who lied to themselves, and therefore, they will run with their lie, because it was from programming themselves, and therefore, it triggers no suspicion. No investigation. No uncertainty. Their lie is self-confirmed, so they skip directly to committing themselves to assuming it.. 

if you want deceived people to leave you, forget you exist, never return, go on about their day, mind their business, stop interrupting you, & let it go, simply tell them the truth. Their self-deception will make them do all that you want, immediately. The best lie, is to get a liar to believe their own. The best lie, is their chosen, learned Truth(lie)

The best deception, is to state a liars lie, or a deceived person's belief. State their false fact, or, unfounded assumption absolutely neutrally. You have confirmed what they were not certain of. They are now committed to their lie, by your "confirmation" and you can stay and watch the puppet twitch it's own strings, or you can go somewhere else. You have no role, and no part to play, in anything that will follow.