Fearfulness

What most people identify as fear, is actually, more realistically hatred of fear, aka, fearfullness, aka, fear of fear. Because they are committing to reject fear, they never find out, that 50% of all worst fears, is the fear of rejecting something that's guaranteed, and good.

 It's not one bit like the fear of missing out, because, I am not referring to the fear or cost of lost opportunity, because, people should be fearful, in their decision-making, regarding opportunity, because they need to manage risk, because an opportunity is not an option, so, it should be taken on as a calculated loss, and never without full proof of content, prior.

An option is a guaranteed, purely profitable, no risk, zero liability option. It is guaranteed, and only waiting for you to choose it, so that consent, is controlled for, and also guaranteed. THAT is the difference between an option, and an opportunity.

This is half of people's worst fear. Is getting the best thing they'll never have, and rejecting it because they fail to identify it, and also do not know anything about having to make a choice, and establish the fact it has been made, with others. 

So, if a person is afraid of fear, what they are actually afraid of, is the guaranteed fact that they will never do what they want, and the other aspect of their fearfulness, is the consequences of rejecting everything they require.

Rquirements are not needs. Requirements are things you pay in pain, loss, suffering, sickness, and torment, if you go without. Love is a requirement. Same as food as. Same as taking a shit is. Same as freedom is. Going without, is like holding your hands in a fire, or going on a hunger strike. Not many will succeed in overriding their fundamental drives.

So, you see, they build their assumption that the emotion of fear, proves the existence of bad, evil, no good things blindly. They have no clue what they are afraid of. They based their fear of fear, and their beliefs about fear based on the fact they always betray everyone, and everyone pays full price. 

Their fear of fear, is about their interpretation of fear, which is not real. It only describes the consequences of their beliefs, and assumptions, played out, before, and after. They do not access reality. Instead, their beliefs are only self-referential.